A Christmas Memory …
Saturday, November 29th, 2008
It’s doubtful that you’ll ever find a young child who hasn’t wanted a bicycle for Christmas — and we three Hinson boys weren’t any different. We’d spent the entire year of 1963, in fact, begging and pleading for Daddy to buy each of us one. After all, our sister’d had one for years, but it was a ‘girlie’ bike. We couldn’t be seen riding that over Morrow Avenue; all our friends would laugh at us. But he’d use the same reply every time: “Maybe for Christmas …”
Finally, at 6:00 that Christmas morning, we hopped out of our beds and into the living room — hoping that we wouldn’t be disappointed. Underneath the tree in the corner of the room were our presents — the standard fare of new shirts, pants, shoes and stuff. There were also a few of those new GI Joe action figures and some board games.
Then, in the other corner of the room, propped up against the couch, were two brand new Schwinn bikes! While we were overjoyed that Daddy hadn’t forgotten, we were puzzled. There were three of us, but only two bicycles! I especially took it hard, since each bike was labeled with one of my brothers’ names!
My face flushed and I began to panic. Where … where was MY bike? Daddy looked at me and said, “Chuck, we didn’t forget you. Look in the corner!” There was a long, flat box lying on the floor. Certain that he didn’t have time to unpack it, I tried to pick the box up. Not only was it heavy, but it sounded like a bunch of metal pieces were sliding around in it! I opened it just to find my bike in what seemed to be a hundred pieces!
Disappointed and embarrassed — I felt sure that they had played a practical joke on me — I felt tears welling up in my eyes. Then, after a moment of silence, Daddy spoke,
“Son, there’s your bike! You’ve just got to put it together!” I turned on my heels and half-cried, “But they got theirs already put together! Why not mine?” He laughed and said, “Don’t you see, son? If you put this together, you’ll learn how it works!” He knew I’d never had an interest in mechanics. “And, if you can do it, then you’ll be ‘one up’ on your brothers. They’ll come to you to fix their bikes, ’cause you’ll know how everything fits!”
So I pulled the box out to the den to start working on it. As I was laying out the different pieces, Daddy came in to talk with me for a moment (my brothers, as you could imagine, were already on the street, trying out their new wheels).
“Son, I know you’re mad because this thing wasn’t already put together. But the reason your mama and I did that was to show you something. You see, your brothers had theirs all put together and ready to ride. Wherever they go, they’ll know we gave them those ‘gifts’. Now, yours was in a lot of pieces, and you have to learn to put it together. It means that, wherever you pedal that thing, you’ll know you’ve been given a ‘talent’. One day, you’re gonna find out that, sometimes, when we ask God to give us something, he’ll give it to us in a hundred little pieces and want us to make what we need out of it. That way, we’ll not only learn how to make it, we’ll also learn how we can help others with the same need, if they ask us. We’ll know how to put the parts together the way they should be.” I stopped trying to fit the back wheel into the assembly, and just thought about what he’d said.
“So, the talent is greater than the gift?” I asked.
He stood there for a second, then quietly replied, “Son, a gift can always be returned or taken back. But a talent stays with you forever. Even though your life is a gift from God, one day it’ll return to Him. But the talent you learn here on earth will benefit others for years to come …”
Suddenly, that bicycle took on new meaning … and I learned a lesson that will forever stay with me.
THE BEAUTY OF FURNITURE
If there’s any “universal” Christmas gift on the market, it has to be furniture! We all know someone (even ourselves) who can use it.
But, of all the types and styles, the most popular over the years has been Moroccan furniture! You not only have the finest of artisanship and, of course, durability, but there’s a richness of the grain, a luster that’ll make you admire it for years to come!
With pieces handmade in Morocco, these skilled artisans do more than “make furniture”; they create true pieces of art!
So, with Christmas just a few weeks away, why not surprise your loved one with the beauty and warmth that this furniture brings? Just click on this link to take you to the most aesthetic and beautiful Moroccan furniture, and you’ll immediately see why this makes the perfect gift this season!
And, while you’re there, why not check their other items, like quality Moroccan chairs, rugs, jewelry and, of course, those famous Moroccan fountains? Remember, these wonderful works of art are available and ready-for-shipment! All you’ve gotta do is click on the Moroccan furniture link to find a veritable oasis of beauty and satisfaction!
Believe me, this is an experience you’ll not wanna miss. Imagine the beauty and warmth within your home this Christmas … courtesy these beautiful furnishings!
Everybody’s stunned — and some shoppers a bit wary — after hearing the reports coming out of New York and California on “Black Friday”.
Just hours later, reports came out of California that two people inside a Toys “R” Us store in Palm Springs, California, were involved in a shooting! With no concern for the safety of children in the store, they decided to take their hostilities out with bullets right then and there!
Y’know, it really isn’t that hard to do …
YOU’RE IN THE QUEEN CITY!! HOME OF OPPORTUNITY!! If you’re in need of assistance, we’ve got the Salvation Armies, Crisis Assistance Ministries, Uptown Shelters and so much more to help you! If in need of work, and no one is hiring, lemme ask ya: What are YOUR talents?? Then why not start your OWN small business? It can be anything from housecleaning (I knew a young lady with lupus who successfully did just that!!) to yardwork and landscaping, making phone calls for businesses to writing blogs or business reviews on the web! Meanwhile, you can keep your eyes and ears open for “help wanteds” around town!
Okay … somebody tell me that this isn’t happening …
But there’s a very pleasant twist to this tale:
With all the talk goin’ on about the shape of the economy, folks around the nation (and ourarea) are turnin’ more and more to some very unique and innovative ways of handling the cash/job shortage.
Some … no, make that many … are starting vegetable gardens; whether they’re yard-size, like my daddy had, or just small planters in apartments, these are planted in hopes of deflecting the rising costs of food. Besides, “home-grown” is always better than the “canned” stuff, right?
Understandably, the
Well, it looks like I’m gonna be losin’ a coupla friends in a few weeks, as Norma and Gene (real names) are gonna be headin’ out west to their “winter” home in Las Vegas.
Paul Overstreet included that song on his album, Forever and Ever, Amen (a song he also wrote and which included another one of my faves, Seein’ My Father In Me). In performing that song, he painted a precise musical vignette of what occurred, first, in daddy’s magnificent garden in Pineville in spring of 1961, then in his “shop” (a little tin-roof building where, in the “office” part, he had a sewing-machine set up for mama to do her work freely) three years later.
With our veterans being honored here at home, around the country and world, yesterday, I just felt the need to reflect a bit. (NOTE: AN IMPORTANT REQUEST FOLLOWS THIS POST. READ IT CAREFULLY, AND, IF YOU AGREE, LET’S ACT ON IT!)
Geez … I just started tonight’s post and I’ve already ticked off a few Republicans!
Now, don’t get me wrong: I like Tina Fey as a comedienne, actress, mom … and, quite honestly, to meet the woman “offstage” is like talking with Everywoman. She’s very sincere, somewhat shy, a bit aloof herself … but definitely genuine!